People Changing Their Minds

I noticed an older lady I like was treated by other people with her like it was bad if she reap glory that she got instead of me anymore.  However, now, those people she is with are surprised when she says she is still the same and didn't forget how she approved of me and applied to that.

My Dad...

My dad symbolically acts like I should accept I am like him in ways I don't believe I am.

However, he acts like when I'm age 33 he is taking responsibility for how he made me or how he thinks he made me.  If there was something wrong with him, he shouldn't have passed it on to me.